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By Stacy Lewis on January 21, 2011
The other day, Orlando came looking for a help attaching a piece of paper to a drum stick. What? Why? {not a chicken leg but a wooden stick} But still, What, why? “Because I made a flag, Mama!” He held the paper closer to my face, “See!” Yes, I do see. An alien, a flying [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on December 20, 2010
part of Holistic Mama’s life up close series Lately I’ve been upset over the violent play, over the constant good-guy, bad-guy stuff, especially hearing it coming from my youngest, Mica, who just turned four. When Orlando was four, he didn’t even know guns existed, or good guys and bad guys for that matter. And we [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on March 4, 2010
Sometimes I feel so filled with impatience. With irritation. With resistance. Sometimes I can find a way to accept those feelings and I soften. Sometimes I remain in the grip of it and simply try my best to shut up. Sometimes I try my best and still don’t shut up. Thus, the other morning, I [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on December 17, 2009
Who can resist Peter Pan? He’s so sneaky. He’s such a trickster and a braggart. He can fly! He has a sword! And a feather in his cap! I ask you, what six year old boy can resist him? Orlando’s eyes light up whenever he thinks about Peter Pan, especially about Peter Pan tormenting Captain [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on May 20, 2009
It was just over a year ago that Godzilla appeared in our lives, crushing houses in his wake, including our own. He brought Orlando an infatuation with power and a curiosity that wanted to measure everything in terms of Big! Bigger! and Biggest! Orlando began with the biggest planet. He moved on to the biggest [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on September 29, 2008
Photo by Ty Muckler.Last night we were over at a friend’s house. A few kids were outside dog-piled in the hammock, and a few were plundering the downstairs playroom. Which is where I was, with Mica, as the kids played the marble run, pounded on the synthesizer-piano, constructed a wooden pizza… Orlando found a few [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on July 30, 2008
I thought maybe Godzilla was going to take a backseat to knights (the new obsession around here), but it seems he has made an undeniable resurgence, as evidenced by Orlando’s recent coloring. Devil Duck’s cousin, Godzilla: The multi-talented Ele-Godzilla: My personal favorite, Godzilla’s get-away car: And before you comment on my son’s unique scribbly coloring [...]
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By Stacy Lewis on July 15, 2008
Last night while we were brushing our teeth, Orlando started telling me all the things that a gum could do. “You can use the gum to poke people.” “You can point the gum down and hurt your foot.” “You can point the gum up and then the things come down like rain and land on [...]
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